
People often ask: how long should wedding planning take? And the answer is: as long as you need.
Some couples plan a wedding in three months. Others take two years. Some are engaged for five years before marrying. There’s no universal timeline. But understanding what needs to happen at each stage helps you feel less overwhelmed and more purposeful.
Stage 1: The Engagement (Months 0-2)
You’re engaged. You might be floating. You might be processing. You might be fielding questions and unsolicited advice from family.
What to do:
